To those left behind this form of desertion is a terrible blow to their pride and self-confidence. Even the finality of death might be preferable. At least it does not imply rejection or failure. Worse than that, people can be left with an unfinished marriage, not knowing whether they will have to wait seven years before they are free to start a fresh life。
Clinical psychologist Paul Brown believes most departures of this kind to be well planned rather than impulsive. “It’s typical of the kind of personality which seems able to ignore other people’s pain and difficulties. Running away, like killing yourself, is a highly aggressive act. By creating an absence the people left behind feel guilty, upset and empty。”
62.When her husband left home, Eileen Doyle_________。
［A］could not forgive him for taking the children
［B］had been expecting it to happen for some time
［C］could not understand why
［D］blamed herself for what had happened
63. Most people who leave their families behind them___________。
［A］do so without warning
［B］do so because of their debts
［C］come back immediately
［D］change their names
64. Some people would even prefer the death to the running away of their spouse because___________。
［A］their spouse would feel no pain during the death
［B］their spouse’s death would not blow their pride and confidence
［C］a desertion would not bring a feeling of rejection or failure
［D］their spouse’s death would make them feel less painful
65.The man or woman left behind with an unfinished marriage usually______________。
［A］admits responsibility for the situation
［B］wishes the person who has left were dead
［C］comes back within a year
［D］will have no legal marriage life for seven years
66. Paul Brown regards leaving home in such circumstances as___________________。
［A］an act of despair
［B］an act of selfishness
［C］the result of a sudden decision
［D］the result of the enormous sense of guilt
Part ⅤCloze (15 minutes)
Directions: There are 20 blanks in the following passage. For each blank there are four choices marked ［A］, ［B］, ［C］and ［D］on the right side of the paper. You should choose the ONE that best fits into the passage. Then mark the corresponding letter on Answer Sheet 2 with a single line through the centre。
Modern people wear many masks that keep their reality confined and 67 , even to themselves. The possibility of encountering one’s 68 , learning about one’s self, is frightening and 69 . Many people expect 70 the worst. A hidden fear 71 the fact that they may also discover the best. To discover the worst is to face the decision of 72 or not to continue in the same pattern. To learn the best is to face the decision of whether or not to live up 73 it. 74 discovery may involve change and 75 causes anxiety. 76 , this can be a creative anxiety which may be thought of as excitement—the excitement of enhancing one’s 77 for being a winner. Transactional analysis is a(n) 78 you can use to know yourself, to know how you relate to others, and to discover the dramatic 79 your life is taking. The unit of personality structure is the ego state. By becoming 80 of your ego state, you can 81 between your various sources of thoughts, feelings, and behavior pattern. You can be more aware of the choices available to you.The unit of measure in interpersonal relationships is the 82 . By analyzing your transactions, you can gain a 83 conscious control of how you operate with other people and how they operate with you. Transactional analysis is a practical 84 from which you can 85 old decisions and behavior and change 86 you decide is desirable for you to change.
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